Pride and arrogance: there are two different emotional states which are divided only by a thin line.
驕傲和傲慢:是兩個不同只有一線相隔的情感狀態。
1.Proud people are always confident while arrogant people are unsecure
驕傲的人總是自信,但是傲慢的人則缺乏安全感
Proud people know what they do. They are usually masters of their profession and they always like to do things properly. They don’t want to mess around and they definitely can’t stand time-wasters.
Arrogant people often use their arrogance to cover their sloppiness and inability to cope with the task. Deep inside, they know they are not able to do the thing they are doing. They are full of doubts.
It is scientifically proven that arrogant people are prone to shame.
科學研究表明,傲慢的人更容易害羞。
2.Proud people use their language wisely while arrogant people usually use strong language
驕傲的人會使用聰明的語言,而傲慢的人通常說比較強勢的話
Pride people always talk wisely and there are two main reasons for it:
驕傲的人說話總是很明智,這里列舉了兩個主要的原因:
a)they always talk from their own experience
他們總是從自身經歷出發
b) they regularly work on themselves, controlling their thoughts.
他們通常都是為自己工作,掌控著他們自己的想法。
They know their pride is coming from those two things so it is natural for them to speak positively and inspiring to others.
他們知道他們的驕傲是來自于以上這兩點,所以自信的講話,鼓勵別人那都是很自然而然的事兒。
3.Proud people think all people deserve to be treated equally while arrogant people think they are better than others
驕傲的人認為所有人都值得平等對待,但是傲慢的人認為他們比別人更好
Pride people have high self-esteem but still think they are as good as others.
驕傲的人有高自尊心,但是仍相信他們和別人是一樣的好。
4.Proud people look at hard work as their way to success while arrogant people are only opportunity seekers
驕傲的人將所有的辛苦努力視為成功的墊腳石,但是傲慢的人只是尋找機遇
Studies show that proud people are achievement-oriented viewing their hard work as the key to their success. They highly rely on themselves whilst always prepared to listen to other people’s advice.
研究表明驕傲的人是將成功視為成功的關鍵。他們高度依賴自己,但是總是準備著聽取別人的意見。
On the other hand, arrogant people view success as pure luck so they are always on the run for the next best opportunity.
另一方面,傲慢的人將成功視為幸運,所以他們總是寄希望于下一次的好機會。
5.Proud people always praise their team while arrogant people want to take all the credits for the job
驕傲的人總是贊美他們的團隊,但是傲慢的人總想將所有的功勞都攬到自己身上
Proud people know the power rests in the teamwork so they always praise all their colleagues. They know that by doing so they lose nothing but only empower the people around them.
Arrogant people think only of their own success. When they work in a team, after the task is completed they are first on the stage to take the prize for it.