Our world is one of unparalleled richness and diversity. The people around us belong to different cultures, languages and faiths; represent a multitude of traditions, customs and values; and possess unique goals, aspirations and dreams. In a society in which differences between us are often easier to spot than the similarities, achieving mutual understanding is not just a matter of importance, but of necessity.
One of the reasons that mutual understanding is so vital is that it forms the basis of all friendships and relationships. Mutual understanding allows existing differences between two or more partied to be acknowledged, accepted and respected, so that common ground and a collective vision can be found. This is true regardless of whether the relationship is between individuals, businesses or even countries. In addition to enabling us to foster long-lasting friendships, mutual understanding can also help people to avoid conflict with others. We may not fully agree with other people’s opinions or beliefs. However, by understanding the reasons behind their words and actions, we can learn to “disagree without being disagreeable” so that quarrels are averted.
Therefore, for those who wish to build lasting relationships, prevent conflict with others, seeking and achieving mutual understanding with others is not only important, but essential.